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Welcome to my counselling profile. I'm Greg.
As an experienced counsellor in Twickenham, I have always felt that a compassionate, open-minded approach to counselling is the best way forward for my clients. I believe in a safe environment where you can voice your concerns in confidence without feeling judged. I also understand that making the changes you want in life can be challenging. So, if you're feeling unsure about what to do next, it can come as welcome relief to talk things through with a counsellor. Someone who can remain neutral, but firmly committed to your interests.
You might see counselling as a way of making sense of impulsive thoughts and emotions, or resolving difficulties in relationships. This process is often enhanced with someone by your side, who can provide you with clarity, support and self-awareness.
We all have busy schedules and our emotions, thoughts and relationships can quickly get on top of us – knocking our confidence and self-esteem. I have sat openly with people in the most difficult circumstances, using empathy and supportive feedback as a way of healing their pain and distress. I believe counselling offers you a chance to gain insight and change your life for the better. It also helps you repair intimate relationships by moving beyond conflict to healthy communication and mutual understanding.
Most people find me warm, approachable and easy to talk to. Whether you’re struggling with anxiety, depression, anger or a loss of confidence, I can help you tackle your problems with attentive listening and observation. I have a good sense of humour and I think it’s important to develop an attitude of tolerance and respect. This comes from a rich life experience of working with people from many different backgrounds, cultures, professions, genders and sexual orientations. I have 12 years' experience and a Master’s Degree in Psychotherapy & Counselling. During my training I cut my teeth as a counsellor and psychotherapist at MIND, the NHS and the first male counsellor at Portsmouth Rape Crisis Service. I have also practiced counselling at Winchester University and as a counselling supervisor at St. Mary's University.
At Counselling in Whitton, Twickenham we will work together to address your concerns and identify any underlying patterns of behaviour. As we work through your struggles together, you will learn to become more reflective and engaged in your own progress. With each step forward, we will work on your strengths, as well as a range of solutions that are matched to your needs. One of the techniques I can help you with is Mindfulness, which has been in the News lately as an evidence-based practice for promoting health and wellbeing. I offer both individual and couples counselling at affordable rates:
• Couples Counselling - £60/hour (anytime)
What happens in counselling?
You tell your story in the best way you can, while I listen and help you develop self-awareness. This includes helping you make sense of your thoughts, emotions & behaviours, even when they aren’t clear. Then we work on finding a way forward with the alternatives and solutions together.
Do I have to know what I’m doing, or talking about in counselling?
There is no right or wrong way to do counselling. If you don’t know what to do or say, it’s normal. You don’t have to come prepared or know exactly what to say – just a sense of your own difficulties. You may feel unsure about what happens next. Don’t worry, you can ask questions, take your time and I will guide you through the process, as you find the words.
Will I be judged or diagnosed with anything?
No. Counselling is an opportunity to talk with a counsellor who is impartial and offers you constructive feedback. I will not be diagnosing you with any labels you don’t understand; or speaking psychobabble that makes no sense to you. If you’re not sure of something, I am happy to explain it again, as often as you’d like me to.
How long does counselling last?
It’s up to you. Usually you will feel the benefit and sense of progress counselling has made in a short space of time. Simply use your better instincts to decide if you have benefitted and whether the things you’ve learned are sustainable.
Do I have to have something seriously wrong with me?
You will be accepted however you arrive – whether in crisis or simply out of curiosity. There is nothing too trivial or serious for counselling. You just have to feel ready to take the next step.
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As a counsellor in Twickenham and Whitton, EnduringMind, I can help you make sense of impulsive thoughts & emotions, or resolve difficulties in relationships. Offering you a chance to gain clarity, support and self-awareness. You will find me approachable & open-minded. I have expertise in a range of psychological issues: counselling for anxiety, depression, relationships, anger & trauma. I worked with combat veterans and survivors of rape and abuse. I also offer counselling in Hounslow as well as offering counselling services in other surrounding local areas such ascounselling in Isleworth. I'm an accredited member of the United Kingdom Council Psychotherapists (UKCP). I am a supervisor of counsellors at Saint Mary's University and have experience working at MIND, Portsmouth Area Rape Crisis, Winchester University.
On this website I aim to provide useful free resources and a self-help guide with articles on scientific research and apps. EnduringMind provides information on mental health & wellbeing to work on mindfulness techniques, with articles, podcasts and videos, including sound recordings for mindfulness practice, meditations, breathing exercises and aseries of topical posts on my counselling journal. The resources are free to download. I hope you find EnduringMind useful. Click on Google+ and "Client Reviews". Thanks for taking the time to read this.
The illuminated mind is free from fear.
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